From Fargo to Fredericksburg for Fun, Friendship and Function

Denise Doring VanBuren, President General

My weekend brought me to/from North Dakota and then all the way to Virginia to take part in the very best part of DAR, i.e. meeting with women who share my passion for the purpose of our vibrant service organization. I’m delighted to summarize through brief highlights the outstanding hospitality and accomplishments of these dedicated Daughters.

North Dakota 113th State Conference, May 13-15

Although there are little more than 200 members in this active State Society, they are a group of engaged and purpose-driven Daughters in service to promoting historic preservation, education and patriotism. I was impressed by their reports and their spirit of unity. I was also impressed by their commitment to welcoming 22 new members in the last year – a 10-percent growth. Huzzah, ladies!

The conference kicked off with a relaxed (and delicious) start thanks to Local Scouts, who cooked up the local specialty — Pitchfork Steak Fondue! They prepared our steaks in hot oil on actual pitchforks in a tradition that evolved from cowboys cooking meat after long days on the range. Our meal was served at the Faith United Methodist Church, lending a great sense of community to this informal dinner on the eve of conference.

I attended a fascinating workshop on Saturday morning presented by the operators of the Nome Schoolhouse, who are champions of American heritage crafting. This woman-owned business celebrates fiber arts, beginning with a herd of more than 300 sheep and processing their wool into yarns that are sold around the world. Furthermore, they rescued a 1916 historic schoolhouse that had been abandoned for more than 30 years in order to turn it into their Fiber Arts Retreat Center/Event Center/Boutique Hotel in 2021. I was inspired by their courage and energy! I hope to visit someday.

Saturday afternoon’s highlight featured the dedication of a Never Forget Garden in West Fargo. Members of the Dacotah Chapter, official hostesses of the State Conference, dedicated the garden with the help of a local Eagle Scout in commemoration of the centennial of the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier. It is located at the Bonanzaville Historic Site, a collection of 41 historic, relocated structures near the county fairgrounds. The garden will be viewed by tens of thousands of visitors who tour these structures annually to learn more about North Dakota history.

North Dakota State Regent Sandy Sidler has devoted her project to the Fargo National Cemetery, a new five-acre Department of Veteran Affairs (VA) national burial site located in southeast North Dakota. The cemetery will serve the needs of more than 30,000 Veterans, their spouses and eligible family members. It is the first national cemetery built in North Dakota and is part of the VA Cemetery Administration’s Rural Initiative to provide access to VA burial benefits for veterans who reside in rural areas and who have not previously had reasonable access to a national or state veterans’ cemetery. The cemetery was dedicated on Sept. 7, 2019. 

The five chapters of North Dakota also support a vast array of DAR service work, including quilts for veterans, Meals on Wheels, their DAR State Forest, a veterans’ clinic, food drives for homeless veterans, Constitution Week displays and gifts for first responders. They also actively support those deployed at the Grand Forks Airforce Base. I was inspired by their reports. I was also privileged to provide keynote remarks to the Saturday evening formal banquet, which attracted more than 100 people, including several outstanding honorees (e.g. essay winners, Good Citizens, an Americanism Medal recipient and their Outstanding Veteran Volunteer award recipient).

Thank you, Madam State Regent, and all of your outstanding North Dakota Daughters for allowing me to be a small part of your “Denim to Diamonds” weekend.

Washington-Lewis Chapter Centennial Celebration, May 15

My early-Sunday-morning flight returned me to Washington, D.C. in time to drive an hour south and arrive just in time for the magnificent, tented tea party to celebrate a century of service by the Washington-Lewis Chapter, which was formed on May 15, 1922, by Vivian Minor Fleming in Fredericksburg. The chapter was literally created to save Kenmore, the 1770s home of Betty Washington Lewis, the sister of George Washington, and her husband, Fielding Lewis.

Although the chapter requested that the National Society purchase the home, they ultimately raised the $30,000 themselves (in large part due to a letter-writing campaign to individual DAR members and chapter across the country). They wisely formed the separate Kenmore Association in order to process donations and manage the property. They financed the daunting task of restoration and maintenance through good old-fashioned ingenuity and entrepreneurship: when a cookbook was discovered that included the recipe that Washington’s mother had used to prepare gingerbread for the Marquis de Lafayette (on his visit to Fredericksburg in April 1781), they sold it to the Dromedary Gingerbread Mix company, which earned the chapter $38,000 in the early 1930s. DAR resourcefulness at its best!

The gravesite of Mary Ball Washington, George and Betty’s mother, is located down the block; the completion of its monument was the first official project undertaken by our National Society. I think it is fascinating to think that her recipe helped to fund the restoration of her daughter’s historic home 150 years later!

Centennial Chapter Regent Lynda Baer envisioned and executed a superb program for more than 100 guests on what turned out to be a picture-perfect Sunday afternoon. Her committee, officers and members are to be commended. As she summarized her letter within the official program, “May we continue to emulate the fierce example of our founders as Washington-Lewis moves into our second century.” Congratulations to this thriving chapter — which happens to share my birthday. What a special way to celebrate, indeed!

(Enjoy additional photos from this weekend’s events on my DAR President General’s Facebook page.)

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