Lessons from the Pandemic

Denise Doring VanBuren, President General

No one could have foreseen the events of 2020, a year that was shaped and shaded by great difficulty and immense sadness. As we mark a full calendar year since the virus first began to disrupt our lives, I would like to share a few thoughts about what I personally learned. This blog is one part catharsis and nine parts trying to find “sunny” silver linings from the year that was – so please: bear with me. Here are the top five lessons I learned as your President General (in no particular order):

Leadership is Critical to All Success: I was immensely proud of the women who stepped forward to act decisively despite the obstacles placed before them. They set an inspiring example for others, including our Headquarters Staff. The easiest path to have taken would have been to simply shut down our operations and wait for an “all clear” sign to return to our mission. But thanks to strong, committed leadership at every level of DAR, we carried on. That didn’t happen by accident – dedicated women who understood the importance of stepping up when needed most MADE it happen, and I will be forever grateful to those who did.

Survival Demands Resiliency – and Courage: Few choices were easy in 2020. Yet, I am so proud to say that our members evidenced astounding resiliency in the face of great uncertainty – especially those who served on the front lines. But we rose time and time again as a Society, as well.  For example, when the nation experienced a need for protective masks, our members voluntarily stepped forward to sew more than 800,000 of them for their neighbors on the front lines. We together amassed millions of hours of community service, despite all sorts of obstacles and restrictions. Making the individual decision to be a part of that call to serve took courage. I am enormously proud of those who “bounced back” from the pandemic and found myriad ways to aid others in our nation’s time of need.

We Must Accept What We Cannot Change: None of the women elected or appointed into leadership roles during the last year envisioned that the pandemic would deprive us of our opportunity to complete our projects, conduct our meetings or fulfill the plans that some of us had charted for years. After the initial shock that safety demanded that we alter our entire way of life, it honestly took me a long time to accept what was occurring. I was heartbroken to have state visits canceled and even my own first Congress converted to an online format. I was profoundly sad that for the first time in the history of our Society, we were incapable of being together. It took me several months to come to peace with the fact that this was God’s plan for us – and that it was up to us make the most out of that destiny.

Tough Times Really Do Bring Out the Best in Us: Given the magnitude of the national emergency, Daughters might have been excused if we chose to lay aside our work to thank our veterans and active-duty military; if we opted to shutter our headquarters and wait it out; or if we set aside our important work on behalf of new citizens and students. After all, much of America came to a standstill. But not the DAR. We found new ways to serve, embraced technology to accomplish our work and carried forward our critically important mission. No, it wasn’t easy. But yes, it was so very important: Our nation needed us, and just as we have done since our founding, we raised our hands to help.

Daughters are Dependable: When Application submissions lagged by nearly 25 percent last August, we issued a challenge to chapters to bring in at least two members by Application or reinstatement by year’s end. And respond they did – we ended 2020 with the sixth-highest total of new members since our founding in 1890! In short, I have learned: expect great things when you challenge women whose ancestors walked barefoot at Valley Forge!

I have no doubt that when the Daughters of the future look back on the great pandemic of 2020, they will be inspired by your response. Though it was not the administration for which I had planned, YOU have made me immensely proud to serve during this time in our history. Thank you for teaching me lessons about the powerful impact we make when we together Rise and Shine for America -- even during the darkest days.

And ... just imagine what we can accomplish in the year ahead, once we place the pandemic behind us! Can there be any stopping Today’s DAR? Get ready, ladies -- we have much work to do!

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