Why do YOU love DAR?

Denise Doring VanBuren, President General

Earlier this month, I was touched to read a post by a prospective member on a social media site. She related that her Application was nearly complete, and that she wanted to know from existing members if she should join. Why, she asked, do you LOVE DAR?

The answers were moving. And, so I posted the same question on my own DAR President General Facebook Page (which I hope you are following!). Here, too, the answers were heartfelt and renewed my confidence that DAR is, indeed, weathering this pandemic, and that we will exit the other side all the more committed to a mission that matters.

I thought you might enjoy reading some of the nearly 200 messages that were posted:

Ginger: Being able to meet ladies from all over, serve my community, and history! I love history! So proud to be a DAR daughter                      

Vanessa: I love the DAR because we make a difference in so many ways. Protecting and preserving the heart and soul of America. With joy and a spirit that lasts a lifetime.

Vickie: Honoring our Patriots and family history. Unity and sisterhood of the common goal of love of country and love of compassion and volunteering.

Marjorie: DAR has enabled me to explore parts of my personal family history and document those for future generations. It has allowed me to be a part of an organization where I can support our country, our history, and members of our military currently serving and those who have served in the past. And, one of the best parts about DAR is that I have made friends in my state and chapter, as well as in other chapters in this country and around the world. I feel very blessed to be a part of this organization!

Kathy: A thousand different reasons too, and so proud we support service members, but I most love the opportunity to talk family history with like-minded, smart women who share that historical research passion.

Marilyn: As a vet myself, I love how we support the military

Dianne: Service to and for others is the most rewarding experience. Add learning about the amazing sacrifices our ancestors made while forming the nation, and you have so many opportunities to enjoy being with other fun and dedicated women who love the same things. 

Peggy: I convey an understanding of American history and instill a respect for our unique heritage to children in my community ..... THAT is my DAR niche!

Kay: Proud to be part of an organization that preserves the roots of American history and records my own family history that was a part of establishing this great country! #Patriotism

Judy: I love it for the friendships I have made, the service I have been able to perform, and knowing that I am one in a million!

Jennifer: I love DAR because of the patriotism shared chapter, state and nationwide. Feeling the need to educate and preserve our history and knowing you belong to an organization that is built on that foundation, brings a repeated sense of joy and satisfaction… 

Denise: I love being able to spend time with like-minded ladies of all ages and being part of something larger than myself. With my fellow Daughters, we can make a real difference in our communities and the world.

Sue: We are a sisterhood of amazing women with so much to offer our community. No matter what your interest or passion DAR has something for you. I joined with no preconception except that I had an ancestor then I discovered this whole selfless world of service for the nation, local community, and our military. Consider how much we accomplish every year!

Anne: The way women come together to support education, historic preservation and patriotism - regardless of background, culture and creed or color. We are truly a family blessed.

Donna: I came up through C.A.R. so joining was always my plan. I think the support I received while I was an active duty service member, especially during a time as unpopular as Vietnam meant everything to me.

Sandra: I too have always been very proud to belong to an organization that promotes God, Home and Country! I love the fact that we do all of these things in our community daily and are not just a social organization. The veterans are close to my heart… 

Terry: I am eligible to join other lineage organizations, but the service we do for others attracted me to DAR.

KE: I love supporting the veterans and making friends. I also like the challenges that come with leadership and service.

Vannetta: My love for DAR comes in many forms. The opportunity to help the veterans, the ability to work with great ladies in my community and beyond, and the friendships I have made. But my biggest joy of all is Reorganizing our C.A.R. and teaching children 

Patsy: I love DAR because of the people I have met, the values DAR holds and the projects they support. God, Home, and Country strike a chord with me. Historic Preservation, Education, and Patriotism are important to me and I hope I can pass that love on ….

Sue: Honoring God, Home, and Country. Recognizing that ALL is important. Military service, service to others, history, and preservation, conservation, even bees and butterflies. We are to be good stewards of our people and land.

Nancy: DAR is wonderful because it is a non-political, yet patriotic volunteer organization for women who descend from Patriots from the American Revolution

Sandie: The many opportunities afforded by membership have allowed me to use my unique talents to support and enrich my community and country; the committees encompass so many facets of our lives that through the years I've learned a lot as well.

Judy:  I love DAR as it's my second family that l love very much.

Barbara: I came into DAR with my mother. However, I stayed and became active now for almost 50 years, because I love serving God ,Home and Country!

Wendy: I love being a member of DAR because I get the privilege of serving next to truly the best and most like-minded women in the United States. 

Leona: My great aunt was a member. I grew up hearing how she loved it from her niece who is my aunt. I joined to honor all of my patriot ancestors and to support all of the efforts the DAR is involved in such as veteran affairs, education and patriotism.

Jaci: It’s simple for me - I found DAR when I was lost. And, when I walked into my first meeting as a prospective member, the Chapter Regent greeted me with a warm smile and a big hug. At that moment I knew I had found my home; a home full of service opportunities - a home for my heart.

Linda: My love of genealogy and family history drew me to DAR, yet my love of Service to America has held my heart in DAR! Honoring our Veterans, Preserving Historic Sites, teaching children the love of history! And friendships across America!

Cathi: Paying it forward for my country from my ancestors' example of service.

Melanie: I love DAR for a multitude of reasons but one big one is for the dedication to the preservation of American history.

Susan: I love the military support too—my daughter and son-in-law are Navy dentists. Our support for veterans and schools and historic preservation but most of all the wonderful friends I have made in DAR!

Elaine: I love DAR because it offers me a variety of engaging opportunities- helping others, inclusive experiences and making a difference. 

Debbie: I love DAR because I can explore my different hobbies and support important causes with smart, intelligent women who enjoy the same things, including hands-on service in my community. The friendships I have made over the past three years have brought a focused purpose and joy into my life just as I retired.

Darlene: It is an Honor to support our Military who serve our Nation and to Remember those who have Served in the Revolutionary War to bring us where we are today bringing us our history of becoming a DAR to honor our Patriots

Nancy: DAR is about GIVING - give of yourself, your time, your talent, giving your love to the community - all without a thought of compensation.

JaLaine: Hands down, it is the opportunity to support those in uniform who preserve and protect what I consider to be my greatest inheritance!

Katie: Volunteering for the community runs in my family. I love working with others (of all ages) to make a positive impact. I joined DAR in 2003 and my first love was being literacy chair since I was tutoring outside DAR anyway, it was a great fit.

Belinda: I love DAR because no matter where I go, I meet a new instant friend who is Daughter. We have so much in common before we ever open our mouths. 

Nicky: I love DAR because it allows me to serve. Serving is my calling and I have never been a part of an organization that has so many facets to offer opportunities to serve. … 

Tammy: Since we are such a mobile society now, and new careers and options take us to new towns now more than ever, DAR is a way to instantly plug you into a network of like-minded women. It has helped me transition into my new community each time I move. 

Mary: I am also proud that we support our active military and our veterans. I am an educator so I am also proud we support our students and teachers.

Kecia: The journey I am taking to learn my heritage, my pride in my Patriots, and the best: HISTORIC PRESERVATION. And I love all my DAR friends.

Kelly: I Love the DAR for the wonderful ladies I have met and become lifelong friends with. We are diverse and have the same common thread of love of country! As a Blue Star mother, the support my son and I received while he was deployed is something that I will always remember and hold in my heart!

Jan: Patriotism and pride in my heritage and to be able to share the love of my country with so many wonderful women with that same pride and patriotism. 

Susan: We not only support our military town (Goldsboro, NC) but the entire community through service projects, awards and recognitions. We also support an orphanage, veterans, and Native Americans. The list goes on and on.

Meredith: If I had to choose one thing, it would be the women making up DAR membership - so many friendships and interests, strong, bright, interesting women joined with a belief in promoting history, patriotism and education. My grandmother introduced me to DAR… 

Jill: My DAR friends that I have made over the years have given me friendship/love & because of that I am stronger than I would have been had I not joined.

Deborah: DAR validates me and I have the opportunity to serve others and qualify just "why" I am taking up space! I can help others, even in small ways and experience positive/feel good emotions, and I can help to protect our Constitution and preserve history.

Lynda: I love honoring our veterans and I love the connections with like-minded women. I love what a force of nature we can be together and when an unsuspecting person finds that out for the first time.

Donna: I believe in the mission of DAR. It represents the best of us.

Roberta: Because I get to work with smart women who are committed to doing important work to improve our country and our communities.

Leah: From my first meeting as a PM, I felt like I’d come home to a family of sisters I never realized I had! To be in the company of this group of dedicated and patriotic women is awe inspiring and a real blessing.

Carol: For me, it is values. Honoring the memories of those who went before us and worked to build our nation; a desire to preserve our heritage for future generations; and meeting other strong, like minded women who have an appreciation of history… 

Janey: I agree with everything mentioned and I especially love that this it is an organization of women from all walks of life, including all ages.

Donna: I love DARs dedication to service. Service to veterans, communities, family and each other!

Cheryl: I love DAR because it connects me to a long line of patriots; it gives me a chance to do community service; as a former teacher, DAR gives me a venue in which I can continue to educate and donate to worthy causes.

Shirley: Love of history and it a good patriotic organization to serve others. I have been a member for 38 years. I have brought in relatives. I have enjoyed it every step of the way.

Teresa: My father retired from the Navy. He was a WWII veteran with over 20 years of service. I am a widow of a Vietnam veteran who served 23 in the United States Air Force. The NSDAR provides me a way to continue serving at the community and national levels.

Karen: Forward thinking women initiated this organization ... for me it is as complex and as simple as that ...being among bright individuals who are like minded …

Elizabeth: I love DAR because it is something I can do with my mom. Although, that changed after the first year. I now love it because of the connections, the lifelong friends who can become your best friends, that fact that we help military and education.

Mary Ann. I picked one thing I can do from home, as I can't travel. The Patriot Record Project is perfect! You can do anything you want in the DAR.

Fawn: I love the DAR because it’s the most patriotic organization I’ve ever seen! I also love that we honor and keep alive the history and memory of our ancestors who fought so hard for this country, especially in these scary times we can never forget!

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