(Glad to Have Been) Deep in the Heart of Texas

Denise Doring VanBuren, President General

They say, “Everything is big in Texas.” After visiting with the Texas Daughters for their 121st State Conference, I can confirm that certainly applies to their hearts. These passionate and devoted women celebrated 125 years of service in the Lone Star State, and I was honored to be their guest for their “star-studded” anniversary celebration.  

State Regent Susan Greene Tillman’s administration theme is “Reflecting the Light through Friendship and Service,” and her symbol is the five-pointed Texas Star, surrounded by a braid that represents the interwoven strength of her Daughters working together in support of historic preservation, education and patriotism. With more than 19,700 members in 202 chapters, the Texas State Society is the largest in the National Society. It has grown by nearly 12 percent in the last five years with steady year-over-year increases; after witnessing the camaraderie and purpose on display in Dallas, it is easy to understand why. These women are dynamic!

They are also extraordinarily generous.  Dozens of chapters fulfilled their 100 percent participation in the President General’s Project, and Honorary President General and Honorary State Regent Lynn Forney Young led an electronic pledging session in support of the President General’s Project that raised more than $65,000. She “spurred” the Texas Daughters to give by challenging me to both sing “Deep in the Heart of Texas” and hold up a sign that reads “Texas is the Greatest State in the Union” at the Texas Tea at this year’s Continental Congress. You guessed it – I’ll be practicing my New Yorker’s version of the song and readying my poster for all to see. Thank you, Texas, for being, well, Texas!

All this after raising more than $100,000 to support a veterans’ mental health unit as part of Mrs. Tillman’s project and collecting $7,300 worth of goods such as sweatshirts and pants to be delivered to Texas veterans.  They also supported Junior Membership, the Children of the American Revolution, a Texas-based scholarship, the digitization of recently discovered land reparation documents and many other committee endeavors.   

Their financial generosity was astounding, but equally evident was the love these women feel for each other, united in service through our compelling DAR mission. Workshops, reports and tables all reflected the vibrancy of active involvement in our Society, but it was their sense of genuine and heartfelt friendship that was most on display.

As you surely recognize, the Conference occurred just as the nation was reacting to the Coronavirus. While more than 1,200 women had pre-registered, more than 750 members and guests actually attended, including 92 Pages. As a result, we were acutely aware of the need to employ safe practices, and I am proud of the respect shown to each other regarding personal decisions about participation. In fact, concern for each other was evident everywhere. We used lots of hand sanitizer, kept our distance as much as possible and made regular announcements regarding proper safeguards.  Instead of shaking them, we deployed “sunshine hands” to say hello to friends. Mrs. Young even demonstrated her technique to recite the Preamble to the U.S. Constitution while washing her hands.

Those of us who attended could not help but be reminded that the mission of DAR matters more than ever before, as evidenced by the Conference’s outstanding award winners. I particularly enjoyed meeting two of them during Saturday evening’s National Defense Night. Gordon R. England was presented the DAR Medal of Honor in recognition of his service as Deputy U.S. Secretary of Defense and two appointments as U.S. Secretary of the Navy following his keynote address. Also presented the prestigious DAR Medal of Honor was Sgt. First Class Dana Bowman, U.S. Army Ret. A Special Forces Soldier and a member of the U.S. Army’s elite parachute team, the Golden Knights. Dana Bowman is a double amputee who lost his legs in a training accident in 1994. Nine months later, he turned this tragedy into a triumph when he became the first double amputee to re-enlist in the United States Army. He is today a motivational speaker, often to wounded warriors.

Most state conferences and many chapter meetings in the weeks ahead have understandably been canceled or postponed. While we keep our social “distances,” let us not forget the importance of continuing to support our DAR mission, to honor Americans like these two fine men and to replenish our DAR friendships in ways that we are able. 

In fact, I will follow Mrs. Young’s lead and issue you a challenge: will you use this new-found computer time to reach out to eligible friends and family to encourage them to join DAR? Wouldn’t we all be so delighted to follow the lead of Texas to “think big” and welcome a record number of new women to our important work in the year ahead? Let’s reach for a goal of increasing net membership by 10 percent by year’s end. Can we do it? Of course we can!

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